That last loss took a lot out of me but it put a lot of things in order for me. 1st It brungbrought a new sense of health, if you have a strong body you'll have a strong mind. 2nd thing it brought was better understanding that I have to be able to bring what I'm asking from others to the table myself before I can expect somebody else to. 3rd thing is to be a man of actions not words. youYou can do a lot more by showing than telling. threeThree things I repeat to myself on the daily. I guess sometimes you have to stomach a loss in order to get better, as my good brother once told me. you cantYou can't grow good fruits with bad seeds. I appreciate that lesson; it turned into my biggest blessing and for that I'm forever thankful. beyondBeyond blessed to see 28.